I could not sleep yesterday night and ended up going to bed at stupid o’clock. Again.
Just after midnight, I realised I’d been an awful mother all week, you see. That kind of stuff brings on insomnia despite the sleep deprivation let me tell you.
So as I was torturing myself mentally, trying to remember how inadequate I had been as a mother all week, I couldn’t sleep, naturally. I had to beat myself up and confess. Did it make me feel better? Not.
Worse, after I had finished writing what a rubbish mum I was, I started reading every school newsletter ever written and methodically wrote all important information in the family calendar, making sure I was also adding them to my to-do list.
What did I realise?
That I had missed yet another thing: the session at Beanie’s school where parents go in and their offspring proudly show them the amazing work they have done in school (mummy fail again).
I then promptly remembered I had bought myself a Mother’s Day present just I case I did not get anything fancy (bad, bad mummy). Then came the memory of sending Hubby to Jumpy’s preschool for the ‘socialising session’ a week early (yet another fail) and I sheepishly went to bed at an ungodly hour feeling like the worst mother in existence, frankly feeling sorry for myself (and my kids).
Then of course it dawned on me that all I was thinking about was me, me, me and not how my kids were feeling…
And on that note,
Happy Mother’s Day everyone!
When kids have been silly, forgetful or naughty at school, they can go back the next day with a blank slate and start again, right? Is it the same for motherhood? Can I screw up today and start again tomorrow? I think not. I really have to pull myself together and start being a decent mother or I might fail that motherhood thing.
Sorry, this was meant to be an upbeat post about cake… Shall we talk about cake? It is so much easier than dealing with my ineptitude.
Cake… Let’s talk about cake for Mother’s Day.
This stuff is good. It is even free from refined sugar.
The original recipe was sent to me by the lovely people at Organix but I made a few changes: no vanilla flavouring, less butter, less cream and more mangoes.
Since we made it on Mother’s Day, it would not be Mother’s Day cake had the children not been involved. Beanie loved spreading the whipped cream.
Her big brother was a lot more interested in trying the fruit coulis.
What is your favourite flavour combination in cake?

Quick and Easy Tropical Fruit Cake (No Refined Sugar)
Ingredients
For the sponge
- • 1 mango
- • 175g unsalted butter at room temperature
- • 60ml maple syrup
- • 4 free-range eggs
- • 300g self-raising flour
For the filling and topping
- • 4 ripe passion fruits
- • 1 mango
- • 300ml full-fat double cream
- • 4 tablespoons maple syrup
Instructions
- Preheat your oven to Gas Mark 4 (180°C, 160°C fan, 360°F). Grease a couple of 20cm sandwich tins with butter and line their bases with baking paper.
- Make mango puree by blending the flesh of one and a half mangoes until smooth. Keep about a third aside for the topping.
- Please note that this recipe contains more wet ingredients than typical cake mixes. The fruit puree and maple syrup make the mixture wetter than a traditional sugar-based cake. To prevent the mixture 'splitting' (looking curdled), add flour with each addition of wet. If the mixture is starting to split (looking a bit slimy), add in a tablespoon of flour and mix in.
- In a large bowl, beat the butter with the maple syrup and a tablespoon of flour until soft. Add 2/3 of the mango puree and 2 tablespoons of flour. Mix until all combined.
- Add the eggs one at a time, alongside 1 tablespoon of flour with each egg. Beat in thoroughly.
- Sieve in the rest of the flour gradually and fold gently into the mixture using a spatula. Be careful not to overmix it.
- Divide the mixture evenly between the two sandwich tins. Smooth over lightly, and then bake for 20 minutes or until golden and springy to the touch. Insert a knife to check the cakes are cooked – it should come out clean. Leave in the tin for 10 minutes to cool a little, and then turn onto wire rack to cool completely.
- Once the sponge is completely cool, whip the cream until thick, then very lightly stir through 2 tablespoons of maple syrup. Cut open the passion fruit and scoop the flesh into a bowl. Stir in 2 tablespoons of maple syrup and the rest of the mango puree.
- Sandwich the sponges together using half the whipped cream and half the passion fruit flesh. Top with the rest of the cream and drizzle the remaining passion fruit and mango coulis over the top.
- Slice the remaining mango half from top to bottom as close to the stone as possible. Score a criss-cross pattern in the half mango, then push the fruit cubes outward creating a hedgehog shape. Slice the fruit off the skin and add on top of the cake.
- This cake is best enjoyed on the day you bake it.
Disclosure:
– This is not a collaborative post. I was asked whether I wanted to try a recipe by Organix. I loved it and adapted it (recipe above). All opinions and photographs are my own.
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What wonderful recipes to try with the family, thanks.
Coffee and walnut
I love a traditional vanilla sponge with a blackberry jam, but can’t beat a sharp lemon cake
Chocolate Fudge Cake 🙂
Rasberries and cream yum yum x
I love chocolate and hazlenut cake!
Jam and cream, I love a Victoria Sponge!
Chocolate fudge x
banana & blueberry – yummy!!
lemon and courgette cake is lovely
banana and walnut
Lemon drizzle cake is my favourite and I make a cracking one
How do you make yours? I just make a pound cake with lemon juice/zest in and add sugar/lemon juice on top. Is your any different? No worries if it’s a family secret 🙂
The cake is made of a lemon batter mix: then 3 lemons juiced mixed with icing sugar warmed in a pan until it is melted. Keep it on the side warm. It is then poured over the cake as soon as it comes out of the oven, once the cake has been skewered. Once it’s cool then I pour the lemon icing over it. If you want the full recipe let me know. It is totally full proof. I have never had 1 go wrong yet
Thanks, you’re a star!
Oops! I have only just remembered I didn’t put recipe up. Ill do it later today
🙂
Just finally got the recipe out: For the loaf Cake: :8 oz/250 grm unsalted butter. 12.5 oz/350 grm caster sugar. 4 large eggs. Zest of 2 lemon. 12.5 oz/350 grm of self raising flour. Pinch of salt. 8 tablespoons of milk.
For the syrup: juice of 3 lemons. 7oz/200 grm of icing sugar.
For the glaze: juice of 1 lemon. 6oz/300 grm of icing sugar.
Cream together the butter and sugar and add eggs and lemon zest, beating well. Fold in the flour and salt. Then add in the milk. Spoon the batter into your prepared tin (this makes a large Lemon Loaf Cake) The tin should be lined in grease proof paper. Bake for 55 minutes at gas mark 4/180 C and test to see if the cake is done. I usually cook it in the middle of the oven.
For the syrup put the lemon juice and icing sugar in a pan over a warm heat and mix until dissolved. As soon as the cake is done puncture it all over with a skewer and pour over the sugar mix. Leave to cool completely before removing from the tin.
Combine lemon juice and icing sugar together until smooth. Drizzle over the cooled Loaf Cake. Enjoy. I have never had a failed recipe with this. It always gets brilliant reviews
You’re a star, I’ll definitely be making it soon!
I love Banana and maple syrup
I love coconut and cream cake!
Chocolate and peppermint, just like mom used to make x
Lemon, as in Lemon Drizzle cake
mint and chocolate chip
Hazlenut and coffee
I love a good old strawberry and cream cake 🙂
And don’t worry, I missed the session at E’s school before half-term where they had a little show and showed parents their work… She came out of the classroom really sad asking “mummy, why did you miss my show?”. I was not remotely aware of this show, which was mentioned in a newsletter 3 weeks earlier… It took me a couple of weeks to get over it (well I’m still traumatised to be honest…). xxx
You know what? You’ve made me feel better! (Sorry!) I sometimes wonder whether it’s me being disorganised or the school checking we all read every single words they write in newsletters…
mango and pineapple is scrum x
I like coffee and walnut.
One of my favourites! I made a yummy one last month. Must share the recipe at some point!
White chocolate and raspberries.
Oh I’ve got a white chocolate and raspberry cake recipe on the blog! Just type ‘cake’ in the search bar if you’re curious. It’s yum!
i love lemon and lime
peanut butter and chocolate
I love chocolate and chocolate! 😉
Raspberry and vanilla.
Chocolate fudge cake
Coffee and walnut
Chocolate fudge! Yum Yum
Chocolate and cherry
Raspberry Jam and Butter Icing
Vanilla Sponge and currants
I’ve always liked date & walnut cake – it’s a fantastic combination
chocolate, orange, chocolate and chocolate
white chocolate and raspberries <3
Chocolate and cherries
Couguet and lemon cake xx
I like Raspberry & Chocolate.
Lemon and poppy seed is amazing
chocolate and cherry
I like chocolate and nuts combination.
Passion fruit and White chocolate
Chocolate and orange
Coffee and walnut x
Date and walnuts
Strawberrys and Butter icing yummy 🙂 Thanks so much for the chance x
coffee and walnut x
chocolate and fudge x
I just love Lemon and Lime Drizzle cake
Chocolate and raspberries
Chocolate & hazelnut are my two favourite ingredients!
Pumpkin & walnuts
Chocolate fudge cake
carrot and ginger cake!
chocolate and strawberry
Chocolate and vanilla!
Chocolate, fudge with fresh cream
vanilla cake with chocolate icing
I love that this cake is almost guilt free. I’ll share on Facebook and will pin for future baking. 🙂 xx
Oh thanks sweetie. It’s such an easy bake, and yummy too!
Cherry and chocolate! Yum
Coffee and walnut
Lemon and vanilla xx
I love lemon and sugar.
Lemon and coconut!
Chocolate and Vanilla xx
Thats a difficult choice to make I love so many cakes but if I have to choose I go for coffee & walnut
i would have to say that i like nutella and banana cakes. anything with chocolate stuff!
Honey & Lemon
Oh my goodness Mel, you are the least rubbish mum I know! I tend not to think about how bad a mum I am…it works for me! Aside from that, the cake looks flippin amazing…I will be making something like that as soon as I am off the strict part of the I Quit Sugar programme. YUM!
You make me laugh with your quitting sugar programme. What do you eat, lady? I’ll have a teaspoon of something sweet on your behalf, he he!
coffee and walnut
Raspberry and white chocolate.
Carrot and Lemon <3
Carrot and orange
chocolate and orange is my favourite cake combination
Coffee and Chocolate
Chocolate and walnut.
White Chocolate with Raspberry
Ooooh, I have a white chocolate and raspberry cake recipe on the blog! Check it out: it is moreish!
Homemade jam and fresh cream in a victoria sponge
I love chocolate and orange! x
cardamom and rose
I love a Victoria sponge? It’s the butter icing and jam mix I guess.
lemon and choc
I love lemon drizzle cakes, so anything with lemon is my favourite
coffee and walnut
Chocolate and strawberry
Matcha and rose
Happy day mum Mel! Un peu en retard….ton gâteau est extraordinaire ! Love it !xx
Chocolate orange 🙂
coffee and walnut :o)
vanilla sponge and walnuts
beetroot and chocolate cake although i’d love to try making a fruity cake like this!
strawberry and cream
Lemon and pistachio!
honey & lavender
coffee and walnut
Lemon & Lime it is such a twangy refreshing taste
Chocolate and mint.
coconut and lime
Chocolate and fudge x
i love a bit of jam and cream, but my mum makes a lovely coffee and walnut cake!
coffee and walnut is one of my favourites
White Chocolate and Strawberry.
Lime and coconut cake
Mint and banana
Banana and sunflower seeds
battenburg
Chocolate and Guinness
banoffe pie
jam and buttercream
strawberry and vanilla
Chocolate and orange, or anything with butterscotch
Raspberry & dark chocolate x
Jam and cream yum!!
Coffee and Walnut
Chocolate and cherries
Chocolate and coconut
Chocolate and orange is a winner!
Coffee and cream
Lime and coconut would be absolutely spiffing ! 🙂
Omg your a star, chocolate fudge for us x
Oldie but goodie, coffee and walnut
I love a good old fashioned black forest gateau – the combination of dark chocolate and cherries with cream is delicious.
chocolate and cream
Chocolate & Fudge 🙂
Pineapple and coconut
Chocolate fudge
Chocolate and Orange
chocolate and apricot
I love pumpkin and orange
Lemon and poppy seed
Not just saying this because of the cake above…but I love passion fruit in a cake – or in anything in fact!! maybe a bit of vanilla cream mixed in…mmmmm
This cake is yummy, and so easy to make. You should try it!
Banana and chocolate!
coffee and walnut cake
chocolate and orange
I made a courgette and lime cake recently that was delicious!
vanilla and toffee
My favourite is coffee cake with peanut butter, buttercream. Yummy!!
I love coffee and walnut cake
Banana and walnut
Almond and cherry!
Black forest cake – chocolate and cherries x
coffee and walnut cake
Chocolate Fudge Cake!
chocolate and orange
Chocolate and strawberry is a lovely cake combination
I love a lime cheesecake with lots of chocolate on the top
Chocolate fudge cake ?
Chocolate and salted caramel!
coffee and walnut
There is always to much sugar in shop bought products. Will have a go at this recipe at some point.
Banofee pie
Coffee & walnut
I do love a Carrot Cake with cream cheese icing.
Lemon drizzle cake!
chocolate and salted Carmel
Vanilla sponge and strawberry jam
so many great combinations – coffee & walnut – WOW
I like a carrot cake made with some pineapple for extra natural sweetness. It must have the cream cheese frosting though!
Love apple and almond cake
chocolate and coffee
coffee and walnut cake. yum yum
Coffee and Walnut
banana and chocolate
Lemon and vanilla
white chocolate and lemon 🙂
Anything salted caramel
Lemon with anything….yum!
Carrot and Walnut 🙂 xx
I love chocolate cake made with beetroot
Chocolate fudge, tastes amazing.
My favourite is banana cake. That’s not really a combination, so here’s a little story about when my daughter first made banana cake, aged 6 or 7. We were living in the Middle East which is sort of relevant as you have to hope this would not happen here. I was sitting at the kitchen table “supervising”. I told my daughter to carefully weigh the flour and then sift it into the mixing bowl. She did this very diligently, and then stood there looking at the sieve. I told her to add the next ingredients. She turned to me and said, “Mummy, what about these wiggly things, should I put them in the cake too?” I walked over and saw to my horror that the sieve was full of the most disgusting meal worms, which were too fat to go through the sieve. Banana & meal worm was not a combination we wanted to try so everything went in the bin.
Yuck!! You’ve made me laugh though! I had a similar experience in the South of France. Took ages before I could make cake again!
I was rather put off baking too, but it didn’t seem to phase my daughter who wanted to make a cake as soon as we could purchase new (hopefully fresh) flour. Thanks heavens we had sifted the flour otherwise we might have eaten those horrible creatures. Ugh!
When it happened to me, we didn’t sift the flour. I saw a moving thing (eurgh!) in the box of flour after I’d licked the bowl. Yuck, yuck, yuck!
Vanilla & ginger
Strawberry and white chocolate
My favourite flavour combination in a cake is Dark Chocolate and Ginger!
dark chocolate & raspberry 🙂
Blueberry and lemon
lemon and coconut-like a lemon drizzle
Got to be toffee cake yummmmmm
I love orange and chocolate
Lemon and lime is very yummy xxx